Stupid fucker............ I don't fucking understand.....

[DickChickRaver]

So I get a phone call........... Some guy asking if I remember him..... from a long time ago...... My first sons dad who I have not seen or talked to in 12 years called me tonight......... What the fuck... He is trying to make him self feel better about what he did wrong in his life...... Just got out of jail.... He is going through a divorce and he wants to be my friend..... He wants to start talking to me....... what the fuck........ he was in jail for domestic violence....... Where does he get off thinking I want to talk to him..... let alone be friends with him or even get back together with him.......

I was a stupid 18 year old girl......... Or not so stupid........ because I didn't marry him..... I just feel all out of sorts now...... I told him I had to go and he wanted to keep talking to me...... I don't want to talk to him. I dont want any thing from him...... he can give me money if he wants to.......... Im angry.......... Im freaked out...... He saw me when I was pregnant with my second son at home depot and he followed me........ he followed me to my car and then followed me from there....... I am freaked out.... what a creep..... he live about 10 miles from me now......

I guess its better that all this shit happens at one time then bit by bit....... I guess this is my life coming to bite me in the ass......

[dut]

i met up with my high-school love again recently, but the situation couldn't be more different. it's still way too emotional for me to comprehend tho, honestly. so i'm trying to keep my head, but i'm pretty sure i creeped her out  a little by not being able to express this properly when i was drunk and laying on her bed... *sigh*

sounds like the guy in your story really doesn't know when to stop, tho. followed you home? domestic violence? and how the hell did he get your number?!

be careful how you handle this guy, liz. he's had 12 years to plot...    but maybe also 12 years to calm down...

[DickChickRaver]

i met up with my high-school love again recently, but the situation couldn't be more different. it's still way too emotional for me to comprehend tho, honestly. so i'm trying to keep my head, but i'm pretty sure i creeped her out  a little by not being able to express this properly when i was drunk and laying on her bed... *sigh*

sounds like the guy in your story really doesn't know when to stop, tho. followed you home? domestic violence? and how the hell did he get your number?!

be careful how you handle this guy, liz. he's had 12 years to plot...    but maybe also 12 years to calm down...

He called 411........ and I looked up my # and my add. is posted with it...... what a creep.... I told him that too. and I told him he sucked at sex...........

[DickChickRaver]

I feel really strange about the whole thing and creeped out......... Im a little freaked out now........

[v]

get a tazer. shock his ass if he gets 2 close

[dut]

get a tazer. shock his ass if he gets 2 close

dude, have you seen the 12 gauge taser rounds?! owww!!!

http://www.engadget.com/2007/07/10/details-on-tasers-xrep-electric-shotgun-shell-emerge/

and I told him he sucked at sex...........

haha. that's perfect. that sets his expectations straight from the start! much respect.

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[v]

no i havent seen those rounds. fuck a taser. i use .45 cal ACP

[DickChickRaver]

dude, have you seen the 12 gauge taser rounds?! owww!!!

http://www.engadget.com/2007/07/10/details-on-tasers-xrep-electric-shotgun-shell-emerge/

haha. that's perfect. that sets his expectations straight from the start! much respect.

*edited

You know what he said to that....... He was like, well I remembering you tell me that they guy before me had a huge cock so I didnt stand a chance........ I told him, it wasnt the size of his dick it was that he didnt know what to do with it....

Im kind of freaked out..... what if he starts to follow me..... Or what if he is just trying to get me alone some where so he can kill me and get rid of my body.......... he is a creep.....

[DickChickRaver]

So he calls again last night..... He says he wants to meet with me.. I told him I don't need any more friends and why would I want to be friends with him.... I told him he can give me $. He said he would want to start giving me $100.00 - $150.00 every week. I could just meet him and he would give it to me. I said how do I know your not going to kill me...... He says in this really beaner voice........ Im not a creeper..... LOL my friend was over and I had him on speaker phone...... we just started laughing.. OMG....... what is wrong with him. He mentioned that the court said they would want us to work it out our selfs..... I don't know how I feel about that. He also said some thing about signing a paper that says he doesn't owe me all the back child support....... Now why the fuck would I want to do that....... hmmmmmmmmm Im not sure.. LOL what the fuck, he still thinks Im a stupid 18 year old girl...........

[Joygasm]

Yuh, don't sign shit.

& I'm pretty sure he's full of it.

<3 youuuuuuuuuuuuu.

[StyrofoamCheeto]

Don't sign that bullshit. And with his history, no judge would give him visitation. Unless it's supervised, if that. That guy sounds like a creepy bastard. Stay away from him. Change your number. Get a restraining order if he keeps harassing you.

And tell him to go to hell, he didn't give a fuck before, why should he now?

[DickChickRaver]

Im so glad he did not call today...... I needed the break....... ugggggggggg. too much drama. But Im glad it came now and not later......

[DickChickRaver]

So Rays dad has called 5 times in the last 2 days....... I just didnt answer that phone. I dont see why I need to talk to him at all......... If he sends me $ cool, if not I can get him later. LOL......



O and if I put a restraining order on him he goes right to jail.....  So Im not too worried about my safety...

[DickChickRaver]

He keeps calling........ I just dont answer the phone..... so he calls 1time on mon. 3 times last tue. 2 times on wed. 1 time thurs. 1 time on sunday. 2 times tonight. he leaves a mess. to day saying please call me back...... why are you not answering your phone. you said you dont do that....... bla bla bla........ what the fuck.  Then there was some # that called a few times a day from some # I dont know..... he needs to get a fucking life.

[DickChickRaver]

I have not kept up on this and I know that this is  lost cause to every one................... for it is a lost cause to me....................


My sons dad called me about a week ago............ and I laid it out for him....... he wanted to know why I wouldnt meet him for some coffee or some shit............ I told him he only wanted to see me to know if he made the right choice...................... if I was hotter or his wife was.............. he eventually hung up on me because I said he didnt care about Raymond and he never asked about him............. he told me I didnt understand..............


fuck that guy..............................














O I already did............. LOL